✦ Love Like Jesus - Part 2 · Full sermon

What You Stare At, You Become: Seeing Righteousness Instead of Self-Effort

Pastor Brandon Richardson · Video published July 21, 2025 · 39:51

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Pastor Brandon Richardson reads John 8, where the religious leaders insult Jesus and question his identity, and where Jesus tells them he existed before Abraham — after which they take up stones. He reads that confrontation alongside 2 Corinthians 3, where Paul describes a veil over hearts and says that those who behold the Lord's glory are transformed into the same image. The message's central claim is that what we stare at, we become, and that the leaders had stared at the law so long they could not recognize righteousness standing in front of them.

After a prayer for wisdom and revelation, Pastor Brandon tells a story about his children and a hot glue gun to make the point that they needed to stop talking and start listening. He then argues that Scripture should be read through a finished-work, christological lens, and he names three signs that righteousness has become blurry to us: we dishonor the word of righteousness, we are easily offended by it, and we cannot properly discern and host the presence of God. Along the way he turns to Romans 6, 1 Corinthians 15, and the account of Martha and Mary in Luke 10, arguing that self-effort produces anxiety while beholding Jesus produces rest.

The message closes with a T-ball story about his son's boldness, an account he heard from another minister about a longtime church member, and a description of a Psalm 23 season of being shepherded into rest. Pastor Brandon prays that young believers would not have to unlearn years of self-effort, and invites anyone who wants rest and righteousness to raise a hand and pray with him. The ruling image is not effort but attention: Jesus asking for our gaze so that, beholding him, we reflect his kingdom instead of our own striving.

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What you behold shapes what you become

Drawing on 2 Corinthians 3, Pastor Brandon says that those who behold the Lord are transformed into his image, so what we steadily look at shapes us. Staring at the law and self-effort produces anxiety and insecurity; beholding Jesus as righteousness produces rest and likeness to him.

Fixation on the law can blind you to grace

In John 8, Pastor Brandon says the religious leaders had stared at the law so long that when righteousness stood in front of them, they read it as a threat and reached for stones. He says the same can happen today whenever we evaluate ourselves by performance instead of by what Christ has done.

Self-effort is the offspring of legalism

Pastor Brandon frames legalism as an attempt to add self-effort to what Jesus finished, calling it a different gospel and appealing to Paul's argument in Galatians. He also points to Romans 6, where Paul asks how those who died to sin could live in it, and to 1 Corinthians 15, where the law is described as the strength of sin. Righteousness, in this framing, is received rather than achieved, and growth in sanctification follows that reception.

Presence can be hosted and still missed

In the account of Martha and Mary in Luke 10, Martha welcomes Jesus into her home and then collapses into anxiety over everything she thinks must be done. Pastor Brandon notes that Jesus does not endorse her anxiety or her frustration with her sister, and says one thing is needed.

Rest is the posture for what comes next

Pastor Brandon describes a Psalm 23 season of being shepherded into rest before anticipated momentum, calling the church to labor from interior rest rather than striving. He describes peace and joy as a kind of check engine light for whether one is beholding Jesus or beholding self-effort.

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