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Tough Love: Jesus Calls Us to Love Our Enemies

Pastor Montell Jordan · Video published May 3, 2026 · 49:07

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Pastor Montell Jordan opens with announcements—a recent marriage conference, thanks to Brandon and Holly Richardson, and a preview of his wife's children's book—then turns to Matthew 5. He sets the Sermon on the Mount against Israel's long oppression under Rome and the crowd's expectation of a conquering Messiah, then walks through the hard sayings Jesus gave that crowd, landing on his single point: love your enemy.

Jordan argues the command is not merely external. He says the hardest enemy is sometimes what he calls 'our inner me'—the unforgiveness that keeps us from extending love outward—and reads the passage's aim of being sons and daughters of the Father as identification with God's character. He cites 1 Corinthians 13 and Philippians 4:13 to argue that love is defined by God and possible only through Him.

Jordan shares a personal story from his marriage, then turns to Jesus' question to the man at the Pool of Bethesda, and he closes by inviting anyone who does not know Jesus to surrender, praying with those who respond.

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Love your enemy is the whole point

Jordan deliberately reduces the message to one point drawn from Matthew 5:43-48: love your enemies. He treats this command from the Sermon on the Mount as just as hard to hear today as it was then, because it calls for action rather than sentiment alone.

The enemy may be your inner me

Jordan reframes the command in Matthew 5 by suggesting the biggest obstacle to loving an enemy is often not the enemy but the unforgiveness we hold against ourselves—what he calls the 'inner me.' He grounds the possibility of overcoming this in Philippians 4:13, arguing that loving enemies is possible through Christ rather than on our own.

Unforgiveness is a prison with your keys

Jordan insists forgiveness is for the forgiver, not primarily the offender, and says refusing to forgive holds your own freedom hostage. He connects this back to Matthew 5's call to love enemies.

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